Comments on: Signs of Immaturity

By: Bogdan

Bogdan — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 11:00:59 +0000

Hi Bogdan,

Thanks for reading this, and leaving a comment. Questions are probably the most accessible means of bringing more clarity in our lives (while for some, addressing questions is a big NO-NO, probably because even asking is threading their comfort zone). Well done!

By: Bogdan Aron

Bogdan Aron — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 09:27:09 +0000

This is an article that makes me asking a lot of questions.

By: Bogdan

Bogdan — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:56:39 +0000

Hi Marian,

Thanks for your nice thoughts and for your comments.

Suppressing – anything – is not a healthy habit. From my experience, by beating yourself up, you are consuming valuable energy. However, being aware of a symptom of immaturity is definitely a step forward towards growth. So what I do, when I catch myself in an immature instance, is to discover why I am acting so “childish”: usually it is a hidden, internal issue. And fixing it is the real path to being more mature.

Cheers,

Bogdan

By: Marian Buhnici

Marian Buhnici — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 07:48:43 +0000

Happy birthday!!

Interesting post, mades me wonder: if you realize that your first reaction is immature and you suppress it, does that make you less immature?

By: Bogdan

Bogdan — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 08:55:37 +0000

Hi Stefan,

Thanks a lot for your greeting and for your nice words. You are quite right: being self aware especially on how someone feels about himself and about others, and taking responsibility is probably the core of having a mature attitude. Thanks for pointing this out,

Bogdan

By: Stefan

Stefan — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 02:55:33 +0000

First of all, happy birthday! This is a great post and it comes at the perfect time. I was just having a conversation with a friend on what’s my definition of maturity (because I just called someone immature ). For me, it boils dows to being self-aware (EQ rather than IQ) + taking responsibility.

Have a joyful and peaceful decade!